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Practices in effective parent education

Practices in effective parent education

Practices in Effective Parent Education
Author: Dr.Thomas Gordon
Publisher: Sistem Publishing

Books on parenting often tell us “what to do G.
While reading the examples from time to time you will be surprised to see the similarity with your life. This will encourage you to put into practice what you have learned. ”I can do it with a little effort, ın you will experience the feeling.

CONTENTS
1. EFFECTIVE PARENT-TRAINED FAMILIES
2. VEHICLES ARE NOT ENOUGH MOST IMPORTANT PRINCIPLES
• Inconsistency principle
• Principle of Owning the Problem
3. NEW UNDERSTANDINGS TO HELP PROBLEMED CHILDREN
• When Parents Use Twelve Communication Barriers
• New Insights on Communication Barriers
• The Way of Teaching Listening Skills to Parents 40
4. BEING A LISTENING PARENT: PROBLEMS AND SOLUTIONS
Effective Listening First
Children Not Speaking
If you are ready to listen you should listen
“Oh, listen to me!”
Missing the Dose of Active Listening
Listening Unavailable
Active Listening with Secret Agenda
Ne What if you don't like what you hear? ”
The Impulse to Use Communication Barriers
Some Suggestions to Improve Your Listening Skills
5. HOW DO PARENTS CHANGE WHEN PARENTS ARE AN EFFECTIVE LISTENER?
• The magic of uy I hear you ”
Emotions are Temporary
Helping Children Accept Truth and Limits
Dim I Didn't Like Children ”
Reaching the Real Problem
Raising Self Responsible Children
Ler They will grow faster than you think ”
Parents Acquire New Information About Them
Daha Better if I die ”
6. NEW UNDERSTANDINGS TO HELP PARENTS TO MEET THE REQUIREMENTS
I-messages Against You-messages
Ne What Are My Real Feelings? ”
The Importance of Sending a Complete I-Message
When Children Ignore Me-Messages
Recommendations to Parents on Ben-messages
7. HOW DO I-MESSAGES HELP THE PARENT AND IMPROVE FAMILY LIFE?
Easy to Learn Öğren Tool ”
“Really Works”
You-messages are heard
“Kids Really Want to Help”
Children's ingenious solutions
Olmak Comforting to be honest ”
Parents' Coping With Anger
8. NEW APPLICATIONS IN I-MESSAGES
• I-messages with babies and young children
• A New Opinion: Ben-Messages with Likes
• Preventive I-messages
• I-messages Lead Parties to Problem-Solving
9. PARENT-CHILD CONFLICTS: WHO WINS WHO LOSE?
• The Loser-No Method
Prevention of Conflict Resolution
• Three Methods of Resolving Conflicts
• New Views on Resolving Conflicts at Home
• The truth behind parent power
10. USE OF THE LOSE-NO method: Problems and solutions
Time Pressure and Deductions
“Children are not affected by this method”
If Children Leave While Solving Problems
Children do not comply with the agreement
Unrealistic Solutions of Children
Can power and punishment be an excuse?
Beating can be shown right?
11. HOW PARENTS CAN WORK FOR THE LOSE-NO method7
Preparing the Environment for Problem-Solution
Solutions Reveal When Requirements Are Open
Problems Always Have Multiple Solutions
Changing the First Decision
Reaching the Real Problem
Children may be too rational to think
Problem-solving with babies
Using the Loser-None method in inter-brothers conflicts
Scheduled Problem-solving Meetings
Conflict Prevention Problem Solving
12. I HELP PARENTS TO MANAGE THE CONFLICT OF VALUE
• Why are Value Conflicts Different?
Non-Giving Parents
Effective Methods for Conflicts of Value
Make Good Preparation
You must first be accepted as a consultant
Leave responsibility to your “customer“
13. WHY SOME PARENTS WANT TO TRAIN HIMSELF?
“You Can Be Better”
Im I will not make the mistakes my parents did ”
“Parental Spooky and 'Difficult Craft'“
Al We Receive Signals That Things Worsen ”
when things become desperate
Parental dilemma
Crises and Tragedies
Who needs parent training?
14. FOUR STORIES: HOW DOES EAE CHANGE HIS LIVES?
• Story l: Moving Mountains
• Story II: An EAE Diary Beyond Skills
• Story III: Efforts and Results
• Story IV: Changing Family
15. PRINCIPLES FOR PARENTS
• My faith in my relationships with young people